A lesson from my dad

I was 13 and I was in a foul mood. It was a hot, sultry late summer day and ceiling fans cooled my dad’s grocery store; there was no air-conditioning back then. You always felt hot and sweaty.

I looked through the large plate-glass window and spotted an always-irritable customer jaywalking across West Houston Street toward the front door, and it was more than I could bear. I told my day, “I hate that old grouch. I’m not going to wait on him.” I started to walk to the back of the store, but my dad said sharply, “Come back here!”

What followed could best be described as a rebuke delivered father to son. Papa let me have my say. But when I finished, he said, “Son, there is very little wrong with anyone that love and understanding will not cure.”

Over the next several weeks — I really don’t remember how long — my dad was unfailingly courteous to this man. Then one day, he said to my dad, “Mr. Frank, could I talk with you for a minute?” He and my dad stood over by a red Coca-Cola machine and talked for a long time. The man poured out his story to dad.

A transformation occurred. From that day forward, the man was transformed; I loved to see him coming into the store. It was a pleasure to wait on him.

I was just 13. How was I supposed to know that a promising career back East had been destroyed by a sudden divorce? That he had to move to our little town so his parents could help him raise his two young children? That he was working now at a dead-end job with low pay and no future? That, to his mind, his life was destroyed and there was no hope.

I worked by dad’s side daily until I went away to college. I learned many things from him. But to see the power of a wise heart and a listening ear was one of the most profound.

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The 4 things a church planter needs

After 22 years working in church planting as church planter, strategist, trainer, and resource administrator, I am convinced more than ever that anyone who hears the voice of God telling him to start a new church needs four things.

First: the Basics. The basics start with prayer: strong, real, passionate, personal prayer. This must be supported by family prayer and a intercession team that covers the church planter and his family and ministry 24/7. This kind of prayer assures the church planter that his vision is God’s vision, that his dream comes from God’s heart and is God’s dream. So, his responsibility is to study and, under the Holy Spirit’s direction, come out with a plan to reach that vision (what we call Mission) based in what he values the most (Core Values) and depending on whom he is about to reach (focus group).

Second: The Outreach. The church planter needs to understand how to reach people. Evangelism is not an option. The church planter does not make evangelism; he lives evangelism. The goal is not to scatter seeds all over but to concentrate the effort in an area or neighborhood that has been prepared with strong, intercessory prayer in order to remove stones and weeds, to break the strong cover of the ground and to prepare the ground to receive the precious seed. The church planter must also plan for the first plants coming out as result: how to water them, how to feed them and make them grow (discipleship), He must also plan for the first, second and third years so that the new plants become able to reproduce themselves. I think of a methodology the church in the first century used very well; we call it small groups.

Third: The Growing. The growth only comes through strong relationships: with the ground through strong roots that provide support and nourishment (a relationship with God); with itself and other plants (relationship with himself and his family); and relationships with his environment (the relationship with a mentor, the support group, the planting team, the core group, etc). All of these relationships help the church planter guide the new church to worship, which is nothing other than teaching all these new believers to proclaim publicly or privately who God is. And you only can do that if you know Him very well because you have invested your life within Him.

Fourth: Administration. Yes, I said administration — a word we believe does not belong in the Bible nor theology, but it is indispensable to keeping a church alive. We are talking about strategic planning, budget, calendar, public relations, guiding documents such as constitution and bylaws, insurance and legal matters, etc.

I know that on paper this looks too easy … one, two, three; but, by experience, I know that being in the field is more like blood, sweat and tears. What moves us forward, I believe, is Revelation 7:9-12:
“After this I looked and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and in front of the Lamb. They were wearing white robes and were holding palm branches in their hands. And they cried out in a loud voice: ‘Salvation belongs to our God, who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb.’ All the angels were standing around the throne and around the elders and the four living creatures. They fell down on their faces before the throne and worshiped God, saying: “Amen! Praise and glory and wisdom and thanks and honor and power and strength be to our God for ever and ever. Amen!”

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Tune up your Bible teaching program

NET 21 was an excellent tune-up for our churches. There are times when we forget why we do what we do. For example, why do churches have Bible teaching programs?

The name brand in most mainline churches is called the Sunday School. Why does your church desire to teach people the Bible? There are many curriculum pieces to choose from today and many teaching methods. Yet, my question is, why do we have a Bible teaching emphasis in our churches?

Remember the saying, “Methods are many principles are few, methods change often, principles never do?” What are some core principles that undergird the Bible teaching in your local church? First, let me suggest the Shema of Israel found in Deuteronomy 6:4-9. Shema means “Listen up.” We are challenged to listen well, and to carefully lean into the Word of God. Our congregations must be shaped by Shema.

Second, Matthew 2:34-40 posits that everything we do must be integrated around a robust and focused love for God and people. We love God and want our communities to experience His amazing grace. So, living for God integrates with love for God and people.

Integrating the Scriptures into our lives is paramount. Do our people simply relegate the Scriptures’ influence to one hour a week in a worship experience? Or, is the Bible integrated and applied daily through the week? Our goal for NET 21 is to see lives transformed through the Word of God and through competent teaching and leading in the Bible Teaching and small group ministry in your fellowship.

Psalm 119:105 says, “Thy word is lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.”

How is that going for you? Is Psalm 119:105 true for you and your fellowship? If not, let’s strive to get there this year, and thank you for your support of NET 21.

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